tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post1109755602848427909..comments2023-10-30T04:40:53.955-05:00Comments on Love is a Minefield: Older Man/Daddy PhaseBloggalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03222403961392727373noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post-87305144307532871522008-08-01T08:19:00.000-05:002008-08-01T08:19:00.000-05:00women your age say they find me attractive and whe...women your age say they find me attractive and when i tell them im 45<BR/>they say im lying<BR/>go figure<BR/>but they dont careAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post-55823401886571232182008-07-31T19:16:00.000-05:002008-07-31T19:16:00.000-05:00@ Q: Wow, married at 20? And to a 28 year old??? T...@ Q: Wow, married at 20? And to a 28 year old??? That's courage lol...But it does come down to maturity. I find older men insanely attractive for some reason. The way they talk, the way they dress...I don't know what it is but guys my age just aren't doing it for me anymore. Meh-- it's whatev. I prefer a man with a few rings around his trunk anyway *wink wink* LMAO.<BR/><BR/>@ GLO: Awww thanks sweety!!! I'd like to think that I'm just that damn fly that I've got dudes fallin' in love with me at first sight, but I'm more convinced that the world's gone crazy and there aren't any sane ones left....At least not in my town LOL.Bloggalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03222403961392727373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post-31516710426089691552008-07-31T13:28:00.000-05:002008-07-31T13:28:00.000-05:00You crack me up girl... I think you have just matu...You crack me up girl... <BR/><BR/>I think you have just matured over the guys your age, so naturally you gravitate towards older men. <BR/><BR/>Now obviously, there is nothing wrong with this, but I do see your concern. Young dudes play games, and are still into playing the field. As men mature there very own "maternal clock" kicks in, and for some, that’s when they begin to be laxed about the woman in their lives, so they can take their time and feel her out. It just depends on the place they are in, in their lives.<BR/><BR/>Now as far as the "stalker dude" mentality that you've brought up, I hadn't the slightest clue. As you know, I dealt with some similar nonsense recently, and I can't for the life of me understand this "love at first sight" shit. It just doesn't seem plausible?<BR/><BR/>But then again, there could just be something in the air. LOL.<BR/><BR/>Or! Oh wait! You're young...mature...hot... intelligent...witty...I mean, the list goes on. These dudes could totally just me smitten with you, and lots of attention is their way of showing this?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post-42775895905789737452008-07-30T16:37:00.000-05:002008-07-30T16:37:00.000-05:00is about the maturity level, I have just this year...is about the maturity level, I have just this year for the first time ever person my own age, and i'm 28, at20 I married a 28 year old and generally speaking my dates/bfs are at least 6-7 years older than me. my bro and sister are sort of like me and always being told they are "mature for their age" and they too have always only exclusively dated at least 5 years older than them if not more.. I think we just don't mesh well with people our ageAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com