tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post3705830385119199972..comments2023-10-30T04:40:53.955-05:00Comments on Love is a Minefield: When Will I Be Loved?Bloggalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03222403961392727373noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post-18588913961360589752008-09-30T20:08:00.000-05:002008-09-30T20:08:00.000-05:00No, girly. You're not unlovable. You're IN COLLEGE...No, girly. You're not unlovable. You're IN COLLEGE.<BR/><BR/>Let me break down the collegiate relationship game so that it may forever and consistently be broke. It's bullshit. <BR/><BR/>Those girls walking around campus in a blissful stupor? 8/10, their boyfriends are fucking the girl that sits next to them in English. Real talk.<BR/><BR/>I know this because I WAS that girl. I saw guys with long-term girlfriends at home come to college and cheat with the excuse "I mean, my girl ain't here." I spent three years in a situation with a guy who was in an on and off relationship with a girl on campus. I would walk right by them sitting together in the cafeteria mere hours after he'd had his face between my legs. The shit was a joke. <BR/><BR/>College is a unique time in your life where you have the room to learn yourself without the hassle of adult responsibility. Don't let the actions of others (male or female) dictate how you feel about you. Of course, you're lovable. And the more you love yourself, the more you'll realize it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post-7190769129284321192008-09-30T19:59:00.000-05:002008-09-30T19:59:00.000-05:00Oh girly, wow. How old are you? I went through thi...Oh girly, wow. How old are you? I went through this stage when I was younger like sixteen, seventeen. Now I have the total opposite...I can't keep them ALL from wanting a damn relationship with me even after I say I'M MARRIED!! <BR/><BR/>I agree that this is just a phase that you are going through and it’s strictly due to the age group of guys you are dealing with. <BR/><BR/>Hang in there girl. <BR/><BR/><BR/>And this 2 shall pass. <BR/><BR/><BR/>~A~A Beautifulstrugglehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10546738462099594175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post-43042754227602911822008-09-29T21:12:00.000-05:002008-09-29T21:12:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16707087253474424455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post-91201372755067844872008-09-29T13:26:00.000-05:002008-09-29T13:26:00.000-05:00i totally agree with antithesis.it's easy to blame...i totally agree with antithesis.<BR/><BR/>it's easy to blame ourselves for a man's shortcomings, especially when you are young. you, at 19, are MUCH wiser than your years... but men, men will be JUST catching up to you around age 30 or so. lol. <BR/><BR/>so take it in stride. it may seem as though you are 'unlovable' in your current state of mind, but it is only because they aren't ready to love.<BR/><BR/>i tried that 'friends with benefits' thing once too, and i was like silently killing myself inside to even allow myself to settle for pieces of that man. <BR/><BR/>when it is right, a man will not be able to only settle for your body.. he will also crave your mind and your soul. remember that.<BR/><BR/>i'd say it's his loss.<BR/><BR/>*hugs*Muzehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02388312176758739005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post-72161933848038354132008-09-29T12:28:00.000-05:002008-09-29T12:28:00.000-05:00Hey girl!Glad I could be of some assistance. Hope ...Hey girl!<BR/>Glad I could be of some assistance. Hope you're feeling better!!!Jadedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08720696839068459325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post-26892032328161889822008-09-29T10:33:00.000-05:002008-09-29T10:33:00.000-05:00nothing - we are all loveable, is this the post u ...nothing - we are all loveable, is this the post u said i inspired?All-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post-23549975053557251722008-09-29T08:29:00.000-05:002008-09-29T08:29:00.000-05:00it's still not you, boo. males at this age dont kn...it's still not you, boo. males at this age dont know what they want. unfortunately, they dont think very logically and they are passing you up for the "right now" woman. you know what i mean? they arent really thinking long term. this the girl they add to their list of conquests. they think you are one of those and when they realize you arent, they get scared because they are not REALLY ready for something serious. it's nothing wrong with you. i feel your pain and the pain is making u think irrationally but you are PRIZE.antithesishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01820416263805868128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8833066697728723867.post-31015210995906462782008-09-29T08:08:00.000-05:002008-09-29T08:08:00.000-05:00honey there is nothing wrong with you and your wan...honey there is nothing wrong with you and your wants and needs... you are just dealing with guys of a certain age (a certain young callous, grass-is-greener, try to get as many chicks as possible age) and these guys of a certain age have been pretty much conditioned and celebrated to act a certain way towards women and relationships, while we have been conditioned and celebrated to be the whole opposite way (and made to feel very badly , lonely and shitty if we are NOT into that "ideal" and "In love" or "with someone" situation).... BUt that doesn't mean that the problem is YOU!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com