Tuesday, April 8, 2008

If A Man Wants You

This is my new Bible. Something EVERY woman should read.


It was written by a man.

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending
Compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships
There is nothing cute about baggage
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals
Look for someone complimentary. ..not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are
and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.


Don said...

This is the female bloggers' anthem. lol. I agree with two statements the most:

1) a woman shouldn't look for a man to complete her

2) if a man doesn't want the woman, nothing will make him stay

Eb the Celeb said...

I posted this on my RBW blog a while back. Its so so true!

Retired But Tryin! said...

ok so ive just started reading ya blog so im being pretty random lol but what you posted os amazing. im gonna borrow it cause it fits with my way of thinking perfectly at the moment!

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