So, I got the responses I expected to the love at first sight question. But I have another one for you guys: Do you believe in love at first spark? Is it possible to vibe so well with a person during that very first encounter/conversation that you are instantly smitten?
I definitely believe in love at first sight, though it's incredibly rare. It is true that, often times people misinterpret lusty, physical adoration as love at first sight. But there are some cases when a man or woman instantly recognizes that someone is the One. On sight. It's not rational. It's not superficial. They just pick up on something about this person. Something soulfoul, something internal. They are drawn in, in a way that they never had been before. And, though they may not call it love at first sight, they'd realize later that's exactly what it was.
This hasn't ever happened to me but I'm saying, I do believe it can.
I do, firmly, believe in love at first spark. Not merely lust, chemistry, charm, or infatuation. I believe that two people's energies can mesh so well; that the compatability is so palpable; that conversation is so easy; that their personalities are so aligned, that you can truly gauge that person is a keeper the instant you converse with them.
But maybe that's just me.
Monday, April 6, 2009
Love @ First Spark.
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This is very much a possible phenomena. People may deny it and yeah I'm young, but I am a very avid believer in "Love At First Spark". However, when two people mesh together so well, can't that cause disaster?
I believe in it...although it has never happened to me I hope it will! lol
I believe in this... However, as I have yet to make one of these situations last, I believe that you can't truly know a person at first spark. By this I mean that that first exchange of energies can be really awesome, but then, later on down the line, it may not last, for various reasons... Are you trying to tell us something? You're crushing on someone, aren't you!?
I believe in the idea VERY strongly. I'm an idealist when it comes to matters of the heart. This can happen and it has happened to me.
@ gron: However, when two people mesh together so well, can't that cause disaster?
really, how so?
@ tt: i know, right??? lol. would be lovely.
@ experience: i feel ya. but i'm just talking about the immediate connection being so strong, that you're instanly enamored. even if you don't REALLY know the person yet.
...i'll never teeeeell.
hehe. i'll email you. i don't want to blog about it this one. what's your addy?
@ strangetimes: there aren't enough romantics left in the world.
I believe it. It happened to me. My first day with the man has my heart was like this. It was love at first sight/love at first spark. We just connected. After a movie we stayed up talking until 7am......the next date we stayed up talking to 5am. It was just something about him, something about the way I felt comfortable around him. It was so easy to talk with him and just BE, and that was over 3 yrs ago. I am more in love than ever.
Don't you need that spark in order to be in love, in the first place?
Erin - Two Thumbs Up. = ) I love hearing about relationships like that.
i belive
It's never personally happen to me but I also believe in love at first sight.
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