Friday, October 24, 2008

Bye, Bye Loveisaminefield.com..:-(

So, I don't think I have to wait a full 6 days for the poll to be over because it seems pretty unanimous; I'm changing my url. I guess it's for the best, but I honestly don't want to do it. I love my url lol. I was actually planning on buying the domain and everything. To be honest, I'm not worried that I'll censor my writing now that I know Ex is reading because he and I aren't together anymore. I know he couldn't care less about whether or not I'm sleeping with someone else. I'm more uncomfortable about the fact that everything I've ever written--all the things I wrote in moments of sadness, anger, or pain--will always be there for him to refer to. They are hurtful words that may have been true at some point, but aren't now. And I don't want to delete that stuff because, well, it is my story. I learned a great deal from all of my experiences with him, and I don't want to erase the past. But I guess my hands are kind of tied on this one so, I'm going to just do what needs to be done.

As for Ex and I, we talked about things. We made up in the best way we know how, and I think we're okay for the most part. Except for the fact that I know he'll never confide in me again. But all I can do is apologize and not dwell too much. After today, you won't hear anymore about this drama. Cause I know I do have the tendency to obsess lol.

Since I don't want to lose my readers, I'm going to try to make this change as unnoticeable as possible. Please leave your email address as a comment (or email it to me: riprue@yahoo.com) so that I can send you the url when I finally do change it. I'll make the official change next Wednesday. Hopefully, by then everyone who regularly stops by will have left there addresses and won't miss out on the move. Until then, I guess I'll have to just deal with the awkwardness for a while...ugh.

Hopefully by Monday I'll be less weird about all this because, honestly, it is kind of getting to me. Anyway, enjoy your weekends!

21 comments:

antithesis said...

invrtdreflection@gmail.com

Camila said...

camilacamilacamila@live.com

clnmike said...

clnmike@yahoo.com

CHIC REPORTER said...

rocgurl22@aim.com

Eb the Celeb said...

blog@jonesin-enterprises.com

Qucifer said...

I already shot you an email!

Kisses, chin up!

Skinny Black Girl said...

skinnyblackgirl@gmail.com

Charles said...

Aww thats illy that you have to shut your spot down...but I understand, I totally understand. carrington84@gmail.com

1/3 said...

wow...well the move may be the best thing for you. I'm a new reader but heres my email caramel_goddess04@yahoo.com.

Jaded said...

onlyaliljaded@gmail.com

(vixenchick) said...

aw...you're deleting the whole blog?!?!

cinnamingirl629@yahoo.com

Bloggal said...

thanks to everybody for leaving their addresses! i appreciate it:) but just t clear up any misunderstandings:

i am NOT deleting this blog. just changing the url.

Que.P said...

Lnkidd@comcast.net

Gotta Let it Out said...

♥ you babes...

gottaletitout@gmail.com

Skinny Black Girl said...

skinnyblackgirl@gmail.com

Miss Moody said...

Courtfuhreal@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

I found your blog by some chance and have my lunch time reading less of a dread and by the way its all the way from England ...so i have attacched my email so i can keep up. By the way it is really beautiful reading and if i were you would not change/delete anything.

a million years from now you will laugh about it...



sellinag@gmail.com

spitfire said...

hey i just stumbled on your blog and i don't think you should change anything believe it or not you will grow from this and it will get better with time. stay strong

Super Woman said...

ohnooshedidnt@gmail.com

★TECHIE™★ said...

Continue 2 keep doin ya thing. Your writing is defintely great & great blog. Stay Strong sista & Hold ya head high. Don't let that 1 person try 2 ya head down, and as far as changing the blog name I think you shouldn't also.

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