Lately I've found it harder and harder to maintain this blog. What to write about, what to write about? I don't know. Ideas used to come so easily before. Homework would automatically take the backseat when a great post struck me. But now I'm suffering from extreme writer's block. And I'm starting to realize why.
This blog is called Love is a Minefield, right? Well, this much was true when I created it. Love certainly was a minefield. "You take a step and get blown to pieces, put yourself back together again and stupidly take another step. I guess that's human nature--it hurts so much to be alone that we'd all rather blow up than be single."
But there's just one problem here. I wouldn't rather blow up than be single anymore. I'd rather be single and watch everybody else spontaneously combust in their relationships. It looks like I've sort of evolved past my blog.
I genuinely enjoy being single now. I like the Me Time. I get to do things that you just don't get to do when you're in a relationship. I get to discover things about myself. Be solitary and independent. Not consider somebody else in every little action I make. I love it. That said, my main focus in life isn't love right now so I'm not as inclined to write about it anymore. Sometimes I just want to write about politics or movies or music or art. That's all a little out of place here so, in the near future, I'm going create a sister blog. One where I can write about anything, not just love. In addition to that, I'm thinking about giving this blog a new makeover or title. Most of my entries lately have been about being single and loving it. Not dreading it. I've changed quite a bit since I first created it and I think it's time for LIAM to change as well. After all, there's a whole lot more to me than musings about dating and relationships. So it only makes since to move on.
Now, don't get me wrong, I'll forever be interested in the way men and women relate to one another. So, I'll no doubt continue to blog about it. But I'm not only single, I'm not looking either. That said, to have a blog devoted entirely to relationships when you're not in one is a little difficult to say in the least. At the moment, I'm doing me 100%. It get's a little boring blogging about love all the time when my heart isn't in it. No pun intended.
I know this is a phase though. My love life is just experiencing a temporary but extreme drought. No love, no like, no lust, no dating kissing, no sex, no nothing. And as a result, no motivation to write about anything love-related anymore. But rest assured, the desire will return. Probably with the bloom of Spring when everybody's sex drive is kicked into full gear. Hopefully by then, the ideas will start gushing again...among other things. Please God, please...TMI?
Anyway, I'm kind of rambling now, so I'm calling it a night. And this may sound like a goodbye but it isn't. I'll be back. This week. Just probably with something totally irrelevant and not about love. Not really feeling lovey dovey too much lately.
Monday, February 23, 2009
All Quiet On the Dating Front
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yeah you know this aint no goodbye! about! LOL
I feel you tho, it s hard to write about something youre not really involved in, with that said! ,ake sure you get some pictures up in the new blog! HEY i'll even design ur nu title head if you like. :P
xoxo
I think it's great to read about how you've evolved past your need to be in a relationship.
Keep in mind that this is your blog. It can evolve with you. You might want to think about switching some things up theme wise to give you more room to discuss other topics. Just a thought.
In the meantime, continue to enjoy yourself girly!!
I'm happy that ur happy with your relationship status. Being single is fun! Enjoy it and get to know you:-)
You don't necessarily have to blog about relationships. Its your blog right? You should be able to blog about whatever it is that you want. I don't blog about loneliness and solitude, but thats what my blog is titled. Its up to you where you want to take your blog, be it relationship stuff, things concerning you, or just an enigma.
thanks for your input everybody. it's just that i created this blog with a purpose. with a niche. when people come to this blog, i want them to know what they're in for everytime. i guess i'm trying to create a brand for myself. if i want to launch my blog to a magazine or something, i want them to be able to read every post and it be relevant, you know? i want to maintain this blog but create another where i can write about everything else swimming in my head. so i guess you could say this is a career/business move more than anything.
Hey, companies and corporations rebrand themselves all the time to stay relevant, not just to their supporters, but to themselves as well.
Would it really be that much of a stretch to transform the focus of your blog from the ups and downs of love to the interests, desires, and ambitions of a young and fly woman in her 20s?
Whenever you posted about art gallery shows or the post-secret phenomenon, it didn't feel out of place at all in here. It felt like a natural extension of your personality. It also made the blog more interesting to read, because it offered something different and unexpected.
A sister blog is a nice idea, but you could always transform this blog into something new, without contradicting your earlier intentions about what this blog should be about.
I agree with all the above commenters... As your thoughts evolve, so should your blog. Though your lovelife is taking a brief hiatus, blogging about other things that really stimulate your thoughts may still be relevant.
I've only been following for a short time, but I already feel like I "know" you. (I'm wierd...)It's interesting to read about the various different components of people, not just their love lives.
Hell... My blog is called "The Pursuit of Happiness, but much of the time when I'm blogging, I'm really pissed off! lol.
I agree with all the above commenters... As your thoughts evolve, so should your blog. Though your lovelife is taking a brief hiatus, blogging about other things that really stimulate your thoughts may still be relevant.
I've only been following for a short time, but I already feel like I "know" you. (I'm wierd...)It's interesting to read about the various different components of people, not just their love lives.
Hell... My blog is called "The Pursuit of Happiness, but much of the time when I'm blogging, I'm really pissed off! lol.
I kinda love that you are reviewing the opening statement, getting our grown on and going for more objectivity and more self love!
I completly agree with you. I feel like I would love to be in a relationship, but....I feel free. I think more free than I have every felt. This is possibly because for me with relationship comes drama and who really wants that. But it's a good feeling and eventually you were going to realize that all love is not a minefield, just the bad kind. So I guess you're at your point.
As it goes with priority nothing beats a confidence.Dating is more or less an exposure of yourself to an unknown person who hardly knows much or less about you.She is more interested in what things are you are gaining in your life and not what you are losing.Keep that in mind no ones interested in common things.Presenting yourself as an average guy wont be any good for you.A confident mind will take things in a positive way.He will try to make best out of him,potraiting himself as if he’s the best one for her at this moment.
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